You Were Never Too Much: How Healing Your Inner Child Can End Self-Sabotage and Help You Finally Love Yourself

Too loud. Too emotional. Too needy. Too intense.

Or maybe, worse — you’ve felt like not enough at all.

Not easy enough to love. Not good enough to keep. Not quiet enough to fit in.

You’ve tried to shrink yourself. You’ve said sorry when you didn’t need to.

You’ve laughed when you wanted to cry. You’ve stayed silent when your soul was screaming.

And still — you wonder why things don’t feel better. Why you keep repeating the same patterns. Why you sabotage the very things you want most.

If any of this feels familiar, I want you to know something:

You’re not broken.

You were never too much.

You were just never given the safety to be all of who you are.

So much of our pain starts in the spaces we don’t remember clearly — the childhood moments we brushed aside, the subtle messages we absorbed, the wounds we were too young to name. And now, years later, those old hurts are still quietly driving the show: our relationships, our choices, our inner voice.

This book is about healing those parts of you.

Not by fixing yourself, but by finally listening to yourself.

By meeting the younger version of you — the one who felt invisible, unworthy, or “too much” — and showing them the love they’ve always deserved.

Inside these pages, you’ll walk through a journey of self-discovery, healing, and radical self-love. We’ll explore the quiet ways self-sabotage shows up in your life — and how to untangle it at the root. You’ll learn how to hear your inner child, how to stop abandoning yourself, and how to stand in your truth without guilt or apology.

Each chapter builds on the one before it — guiding you step-by-step from confusion to clarity, from shame to self-acceptance, from survival to thriving. You’ll move through emotional truths, practical tools, and honest stories that remind you: you’re not alone in this.

And you don’t have to stay stuck.

If you’ve ever whispered to yourself, “Maybe something’s wrong with me…”

Let this be the moment you hear something new.

Nothing is wrong with you.

You were never too much. You were never not enough. You were just never taught how to love the real you.

Until now.

If any part of you is ready for change, turn the page.

Your journey begins now.