When Love Feels Like Abandonment: Why You Chase the Wrong People—and How to Finally Choose Yourself
About this ebook
If you’ve ever felt invisible in love… if you’ve bent over backwards to be chosen, only to be met with silence, distance, or crumbs… this book will hit you right in the heart.
Avery Clarke understands the heartbreak of feeling “too much” and “never enough” at the same time. She knows what it’s like to confuse anxiety with connection and mistake chaos for chemistry. But she also knows something else—you can unlearn the pain that taught you to abandon yourself.
In When Love Feels Like Abandonment, you’ll gently unravel the patterns that keep you stuck—and find the courage to choose differently.
Inside, you’ll discover how to:
Spot the subtle signs of an abandonment wound—and how it plays out in your relationships
Understand why you feel drawn to emotionally unavailable or inconsistent partners
Break free from anxious or avoidant attachment patterns—without needing them to change first
Heal the root of overgiving and people-pleasing so you can finally receive the love you long for
Build deeply secure connections without losing your power, your voice, or your self-respect
Even if you think you’re the problem.
Even if you’ve tried therapy, journaling, or dating advice that never stuck.
Even if part of you still wants to go back to the person who broke you.
This isn’t about blaming your past—it’s about rewriting your future.
You are not hard to love. You are just learning to stop settling for half-love.
If you’re ready to stop begging to be chosen—and start choosing you—then this book will be the turning point.
Buy now and begin the healing your heart has been waiting for.
About the author
Avery Clarke is a passionate advocate for personal healing, emotional empowerment, and spiritual transformation. With a deep understanding of feminine energy and the profound impact of inner child healing and shadow work, Avery writes to inspire women to reconnect with their authentic selves, break free from limiting patterns, and step into their power.
Through her work, Avery combines compassionate insights, practical tools, and transformative guidance, helping readers embrace vulnerability, awaken their intuition, and find balance in their lives. She believes that every woman has the innate strength to heal and thrive, and her writing reflects her unwavering commitment to empowering others on their journeys.
When she’s not writing, Avery enjoys exploring creativity through journaling and painting, connecting with nature on long walks, and finding joy in the quiet moments that nurture her soul. A firm believer in the ripple effect of healing, Avery’s mission is to guide readers toward living in wholeness and alignment—and to inspire them to share that light with others.
