In this beautifully written and illustrated self-help memoir, Allen Dekeyser shares the quiet truths and powerful awakenings that helped him stop chasing validation, release shame, and finally return home to himself. Through 20 powerful chapters—each paired with affirmations, journal prompts, and full-page artwork—you’ll walk alongside a voice that’s been in the valley and found a way out.
Whether you’re healing from trauma, recovering from self-neglect, or learning to finally choose yourself, this book offers more than inspiration—it offers proof that loving yourself again is not only possible… it’s necessary.
You’re not too much. You’re not too late. You’re not alone.
Allen Dekeyser is a survivor, speaker, and storyteller whose raw honesty and unwavering hope shine through every page he writes. His life has been shaped by real pain, real love, and real healing. After surviving a traumatic shooting at the hands of police and overcoming years of inner battles, Allen chose a different path—one rooted in truth, self-compassion, and the fierce decision to keep going.
With the support of his loyal service dog Harley, and the unbreakable bond he shares with his wife Marqueta and their beloved dogs Pebbles and Fendi, Allen’s life and work center on one core belief: You are worthy of love—even your own.
He writes for the broken-hearted, the silent strugglers, and anyone trying to find their way back to themselves. Through his growing collection of inspirational books and videos, Allen helps readers heal, reflect, and rise. His work blends emotional storytelling with practical wisdom, offering both comfort and courage to those navigating dark places.
When he’s not writing, Allen enjoys delivering with Amazon Flex alongside Harley, creating with passion, and building a life filled with peace, faith, and purpose.
“This isn’t just a book. It’s a mirror. And I hope you see yourself in these pages—and choose to love what you find.”
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🐾 With love from Harley, Pebbles, and Fendi.