Always The Other Guy
About this ebook
In this powerful and personal book, Allen De Keyser breaks down what happens when we live in a world where responsibility is always passed off, emotions are weaponized, and healing is avoided. Through honest storytelling, hard-learned lessons, and deep reflection, Allen unpacks toxic patterns, denial, and how blame can destroy relationships, families, and even your sense of self.
But this book isn’t just about calling it out—it’s about calling yourself in.
If you’ve ever felt like you were silenced, manipulated, or made to feel crazy… if you’ve ever been told it was your fault when it wasn’t… or if you’ve ever struggled to face your own role in the hurt—you’re not alone.
Always the Other Guy’s Fault is about truth, healing, and breaking the cycle.
About the author
Allen De Keyser is no stranger to being misunderstood. As a survivor of trauma, a target of false narratives, and a voice for those silenced by blame, Allen uses his story to shine a light on the damage caused by denial and projection.
In Always the Other Guy, he writes with unfiltered honesty about being cast as the villain in situations where truth was twisted and pain was ignored. His work speaks to anyone who's been scapegoated, gaslit, or falsely accused—and anyone brave enough to confront their own part in the pain.
Allen is also the author of multiple powerful books on trauma, healing, and resilience. Through all of life’s storms, he walks side-by-side with his service dog Harley, turning hardship into hope one story at a time.
