Is really love a necessity for our lives?!
Why can’t life be much simple, mathematical, with very clear rules to follow?!
Why we need to fall in love?!
We should spend our lives only following the path the society taught us about ... finish school, get a job, make money, try to be successful, retire ... and then die.
Why we need this complicated story of studying what love is about?!
Well ... first all of you have a heart inside of you ... to feel the life ... and being in a love story everything becomes more “real”.
Following just the paths the society told you about should be boring.
This is why lots of poets and writers ... wrote so much, trying to define the meaning of love in our lives.
When you are the kind of person that look at life in a logical and rational way ... falling in love looks like useless, like a pathless path.
But discovering the love feelings, in a time when everything looked like boring in your life ... redefines everything.
Is never a good moment to fall in love, cause you will always need to do something in the real life ... and looks like there is no time to loose for those silly feelings ... but one day ... when the feelings become so strong inside of you ... you realise that you just started to feel ALIVE.
You always did what other taught you to do in life .... the parents, friends, teachers or people you know ... but no one came to you to whisper the secret of life ... IF YOU WANT TO FEEL ALIVE ... JUST LET YOUR HEART TO FALL IN LOVE.
You might loose your soul, your heart, your mind ... but you will feel being alive.
No other path gives you those feelings.
Yesss ... truth be told ... LOVE ... is the pathless path ... but it goes to your soul.
I’ve started to write my first book at 16 … but then … realizing i could not publish it … i’ve abandoned the idea of being a … writer.
20 years later … i’ve started to write again … believing i will finally succeed … but i’ve failed one more time … not getting the success i was chasing for.
Another 5 years later … i’ve started one more time to write … but this time … more as a therapy.
It’s what i’ve defined as … self therapy.
I was analyzing and defining lots of weird ideas … that were a lot related to me … and my own soul.
I totally forgot that i was chasing for success.
I was simple writing my thoughts … in essays … becoming this way … maybe not a writer …. but what many define as … an essayist.
This is not a poet … and not a writer.
Or maybe is kind of a poet that is incapable of writing poetry … but is still expressing his thoughts … into a similar way … as a poet.
And is not a writer … cause have not the ability to write for too long time … about the same subject.
But maybe i am not an essayist… either.
I am just an ordinary person … that could be better defined … as a thinker.
Analyzing … and defining my life … practicing this process called … self therapy … i started to understand life … and the way to better paths which i should follow.
And i’ve wrote … and wrote … and wrote … realizing one day that i’ve published tens of books …. not really understanding how the hell I’ve succeeded doing that.
Today i dare to recommend writing … as a therapy.
I could even say … it’s a simple way of understanding who we are … but also a process that could help us … heal our souls.
I personally continue to … write.
It’s in fact … a non ending story that … at least for myself … will probably continue for the rest of my life.
But over all … i am glad … i am doing it.
I continue my philosophical journey … not being able to define myself for clear as a writer or an essayist… but …
Well …. most probably… i am on a good path.
And … i would dare to recommend to everyone … all what i am doing today.