Break free from the cycle of people-pleasing, guilt, and emotional exhaustion.
Kick Codependency to the Curb is a raw, powerful, and healing guide for anyone who’s tired of losing themselves in relationships. Whether you grew up in dysfunction, survived trauma, or simply forgot how to choose yourself — this book will help you name the patterns, break the cycle, and finally reclaim your peace.
Inside, you'll discover:
What codependency really is (and what it’s not)
The deep roots of emotional self-abandonment
How to set boundaries without guilt
How to stop rescuing, fixing, and people-pleasing
How to heal your inner child and reconnect with your true identity
How to rebuild your life with confidence, peace, and self-respect
Written with empathy, bold truth, and real-life insight, this book is your companion on the journey to self-worth, emotional healing, and freedom.
It’s time to stop shrinking for others.
It’s time to kick codependency to the curb.
Allen De Keyser is a survivor, storyteller, and truth-speaker dedicated to helping people heal, grow, and love better. Through real-life experience, deep emotional insight, and a voice rooted in authenticity, Allen writes the kinds of books he wishes he had when life got hard.
From the struggles of trauma and the power of personal growth to the daily work of love and communication, Allen’s mission is simple: to equip others with tools that actually work in the real world—not just in theory.
Allen lives by a core belief:
💬 “Honest love, consistent effort, and mutual respect will take you farther than perfection ever could.”
Whether you're working on your marriage, rebuilding trust, or simply trying to be a better partner, Allen’s work will walk beside you—never above you.
He lives with his loyal service dog Harley and his wife Marqueta, who inspires much of his work. Together, they’ve built a life that proves healing is possible, connection is real, and love—when nurtured—is powerful.
To connect, learn more, or explore other books by Allen De Keyser, visit:
🌐 www.dekeyser-publishing.com
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