You’re not crazy. You’re just tired of yelling to be heard.
In this powerful, emotionally honest book, Allen De Keyser brings you inside the journey of Elijah—a man who used to argue out of fear, shut down when it mattered most, and ruin relationships he desperately wanted to save. Through 22 life-changing chapters, you’ll witness his transformation from explosive reactions to calm, clear communication rooted in truth, love, and emotional responsibility.
This isn’t a book about talking better.
It’s about healing the part of you that forgot you were allowed to speak your truth… without it turning into a war.
Whether you’re in a relationship, raising a family, or just trying to communicate your feelings without losing yourself—this book is for you.
Packed with real-life story, reflection prompts, communication tools, and legacy-building lessons, this is more than a guide.
It’s your permission slip to speak, be heard, and choose peace over performance.
Break the cycle. Save the connection. And finally say what you feel—with love.
About the Author – Allen De Keyser
Allen De Keyser is no stranger to silence, pain, or survival. After living through trauma, emotional shutdowns, and nearly losing everything he loved, he decided to rewrite the script—not just for himself, but for anyone who’s ever struggled to speak their truth without sparking a fire.
A husband, a survivor, and a communicator forged through storms, Allen turned his battles into books that heal. With raw honesty and a voice that’s both grounded and bold, he writes for the ones who were told “stop crying,” “man up,” or “just let it go.” His mission is simple but urgent: to help people express their feelings without destroying their relationships in the process.
When Allen isn’t writing, he’s living the lessons—spending time with his wife Marqueta and their loyal service dog Harley, the heartbeat beside him through it all. Through his imprint, DeKeyser Publishing, Allen is building more than books. He’s building a legacy of truth, emotional growth, and unshakable love.
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