Chapter 1

The Early Signs of Monkey Branching

I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

Maya Angelou

The definition of a monkey-branching relationship is similar to cheating. Monkey-branching occurs when people are considering other options while they are still in a relationship with their partner.

They do this to place down a safety net and secure a backup plan in case something goes wrong in their current relationship.

Essentially, a dumper that monkey-branches emotionally cheats on his or her current partner and eventually leaves for someone else.

1.They start gaslighting you.

This is the definition of gaslighting: manipulate someone by psychological means, be aware when someone start's gaslighting you.When someone gaslighting you they are accusing you of something they are doing.They will accuse you of cheating because they themselves are cheating and monkey branching.

2.They change hobbies and activities.

They don’t want to be around you too much, the things you used to do together to Bond together they don’t want to do it no more. Because they start losing interest in you and their mind is focusing on the new person that's taking your place.

3.They change their appearance.

They start dressing better and smelling better, they start going to the gym and taking care of themself, because with you they start to get complacent and become a couch potato. With you they didn’t care how they got their hair fixed, they walked around in their dirty ass underwear or dirty black leggings or basketball shorts people have on for a long ass time.They probably walked around the house with that stank ass weave and that nasty hair bonnet on. They do not wash their hair,then all of a sudden they start improving their appearance.They start eating healthy and going on a diet .The reason for this is because they lose interest in you, you become boring and complacent. Nobody wants a boring relationship.

4.You catch them on dating apps

This should be a dead giveaway, what you think they get on dating apps to do, they're not looking for a prince in shining armor on a dating app or Mr. Right on a dating app, they're looking for somebody to stretch out their vagina walls a little further. Nobody really goes on dating apps looking for love they go on dating apps looking for sex and in today's time it just like ordering pizza.